Always Tell The Truth!

When we lie to each other we are hurting ourselves. - Ephesians 4:25 TLB



Honesty isn't just the best policy; it's the only one! Paul says, "When we lie to each other we are hurting ourselves." When trust is broken it's hard to restore. While telling the truth sounds simple, it takes commitment on three levels.

(1) Verbally. Lying undermines confidence. For example, when somebody denies blowing the family budget or covers up a drinking problem, inevitably there's trouble. But when each partner knows in his or her heart that the other "will hold to the truth in love" (Eph 4:15 NLT), the relationship becomes stronger and more likely to weather storms.

(2) Behaviourally. The Bible says, "Unless you are faithful in small matters, you won't be...in large ones. If you cheat even a little, you won't be honest with greater responsibilities" (Lk 16:10 NLT). You become known as a person of integrity by keeping your word. So, if you make a commitment to do something, do it - even if it costs you or you get a better offer.

(3) In actuality. Why make such a big deal about telling the truth? Because every relationship in your life is based on one thing - trust! When you violate that, you: (a) end up losing your influence and respect with others; (b) constantly live with the fear of being found out, which makes you insecure; (c) have to worry about what you said, and to whom; (d) ironically, get to where you can't believe others, for "as you live your life, you judge your neighbour." So, tell the truth!