Recently this song has been stuck inside my head for some odd reasons. I don't know why but yeah it's just there. So I've been thinking about people around me those in relationships. Those in ones that last, those in ones that end up in a sad end and those who.. well change 'clothes' all the time.
As I thought deeper and as I look at so many of these 'come and go' around it seems as though love comes hard. Each with his/her own perception meeting for the first time then trying to fill in the gaps that is found in the other person. It's like pouring sand into a bucket of rocks to fill up the gaps but in the end the weight tears the bucket apart. People get happy, people become sad, all these emotions run around a person's head when they're in 'love'. Love sometimes blinds, love sometimes heals, love sometimes takes away and love sometimes gives and love can also hurt.
A person close to me once told me the other person is talking about marriage and said "I'm too young for all these". I can't help but wonder why then did this relationship start if you don't think that it's for you?
And as I pondered upon the fact that many more people have the same take on relationship (by that i mean intimate relationships) I can't help but to say that a relationship is not a game, it is not something you enter just to feel happy for the moment or to use as a substitute to find yourself complete, it is something where you understand the meaning of sacrifice and willingness to give up self to complete the other. It is something you get into after considering the fact that you will share the rest of your entire life with someone.
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
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"love is not by way of searching the perfect person but by seeing an imperfect person perfect you"
Sincerely,
old buddy aka intan
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